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All Dolled Up

By CattyDaddy | Oct 18

Having a daughter is such a joy. There is a particular delight in doing all the "girly" things that one can do with a daughter.


CattyDaddy takes you on the adventures of two gay dads and their daughter. Check out his column for vignettes about their experiences as a two-dad family. Joe, Greg, their daughter Elly and dog Betty live in Cambridge, MA. Joe AKA CattyDaddy is a stay-at-home dad and Greg is a physician. Elly is a busy, curious toddler and Betty spends her days keeping up with her human baby sister. You can also follow CattyDaddy’s broader musings on life at www.cattydaddy.com.

Other Recent Columns

School Days

By CattyDaddy | Monday Oct 1, 2012
Yesterday I was holding a brand-new, wailing baby girl swaddled in her hospital issued striped blanket. Or at least it felt like yesterday. But really, it was three and a half years ago.

It Takes A Village

By CattyDaddy | Wednesday Sep 19, 2012
There’s an expression that I suspect you have heard before - "It takes a village to raise a child." While I was familiar with it before Elly, now that I’m a parent, the sentiment behind those words really resonates with me.

As Time Goes By

By CattyDaddy | Monday Mar 12, 2012
Milestones mark life for us. Whether joyous or sad, these markers imprint our lives in a permanent way.

My Sister Has A Tail

By CattyDaddy | Thursday Mar 1, 2012
While Elly is well aware that Betty is a dog, at some level she still thinks of her as a human.

Losing My Religion

By CattyDaddy | Wednesday Feb 1, 2012
This Sunday, I walked out of church in the middle of mass and felt much better for it. I owe a debt of gratitude to the priest for empowering me to do what I should have done years ago - leave a place where my wallet is more welcome than I am.

The Long And Whining Road

By CattyDaddy | Wednesday Jan 18, 2012
If whine was intoxicating, there would be some mornings that I’d be loaded by 9AM.

Losing My Marbles

By CattyDaddy | Tuesday Jan 10, 2012
I keep muttering, "I don’t care if the alphabet magnets are missing the letters K, S and T." But the reality is, I really do. Not being able to find things drives me bonkers. So, I search.

Out Of The Mouths Of Babes

By CattyDaddy | Wednesday Nov 23, 2011
Seeing the world through a child’s lens can be fun, endearing, surprising or all of the above. I recently had three lovely and memorable conversations during a trip to Italy.

Miss Independence Heads To The ’Burbs

By CattyDaddy | Thursday Sep 8, 2011
Two year olds have a keen ability to keep you on your toes and at wit’s end simultaneously. As little Miss Independence continues to assert herself, I waffle between wondering if I’m raising a two year old or a miniaturized, rambunctious teen.

Hello, Dolly

By CattyDaddy | Tuesday Jun 28, 2011
Being home full time with a child and possessing a bizarre sense of humor as I do, one tends to rely on fun things to amuse oneself. One example for me has been naming Elly’s dolls.